I am a 42 year old mom of three i have 2 boys and one girl and one 17,13,and 5 i have been __trough alot my 13 year old has alot of problems and is hospitalized and will remain their .i am a bbw but i am having weight loss surgery in 9 more days i am having a gas__tric bypass and plan on working hard to lose alot of weight. so i am looking for friends only