often when we love we are blinded By many things, our hearts deceive our minds and were left with a blurry vision, a vision we can't Touch but we see from far away, because of its distance that image that we can't see clearly Deceives our site and lies to our minds eye, we view it as something great, something untouchable, we View the one that lets go of us as a creature so divine, so flawless that it grows deeper in our Heads and hearts to the point that letting go is an impossible solution for our problems. After A while we start to blame ourselves because we have no clue or no clear view of what actually Happened. So often broken hearted lovers when there love lets go of them, they let go of Everything in life, they let go of the bad and they let go of the good, they miss opportunities And sometimes fall into personal traps, and I say personal because only the lover or his/her Beloved can save the situation. It is sad to see many lovers suffer after love, but were they Betrayed or were they blind to see the truth. You could give your all to your love, money, time, Passion and promises but sometimes it doesn't matter what you give, maybe the reason she/he left is Because they found what was missing in someone else, it is unjust when you make vowels to live life Forever loving and cherishing one another and in a fraction of a second one lets go of Everything. It seems most lovers leave with reasons that are unexplained, some leave without even Saying goodbye..
You could cry alone at night and people would judge your composure and say he/she will be fine, Your fate has brought you no fortune in love, and it bothers you everyday and you pray for mercy And you try to find the truth, but let me tell you.. There is no truth, love is made up of allot Of lies and a person cant take it when they are lonely, your soul is hurt cause the one you love Is in love. I have no advice or no straight answers but I do have a personal understanding of the Life of love, you love someone and someone loves you, and you always go for what you can't have.
but i dont want to leave you helpless.. keep faith alive maybe you will find one who beats all the strong beliefs you believed about your old love. god bless and good luck.